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Infidelity

INFIDELITY...

usually a symptom of a bigger problem. Sometimes it is a problem within the relationship. Many times it is a problem the unfaithful party already had. Regardless of the reasons, it is a BeTrAyAL. Trust has been broken. That is something that is hard to fix. The damage to trust, many times, is irreparable. In these circumstances, it only prolongs the inevitable end of the relationship by staying in it. If repairable, it is a long hard road to walk.

Good Luck, whichever path you choose.

Gnob'08

I thought I'm finally over you but then I've started dreaming of you again...

can't get enough when it comes to Love

" You've got butterflies in your stomach, you can't stop smiling, and you could swear that you're the luckiest person in the world. Sound familiar? It could only be one thing — love! And no matter how much you've got, it probably feels like you will never get enough, right? From smoldering crushes to even cuddlier dates, you're the kind of person who loves to want and feel wanted.

Money can't buy love, but that doesn't stop you from working to get it. Caring and affectionate, you know there's no such thing as too much. And while you might be a little sappy or sentimental now and again, there's no way anyone's going to fault you for having your heart in the right place. After all, you know what they say — the best way to get love is to give it. So go out there and get what you want! "

Have a Sharp Mind

"Janna, you Have what it takes because you Have a Sharp Mind

There's no doubt about it: A quick-thinking person like you leaves no stone unturned and wastes no time solving any mystery that comes your way. Whether you're finding the fastest route to work, spotting online scams, or thinking up the perfect plan to escape a bad date, when it comes to using your noggin, you're definitely in first place. Of course you aren't just book smart. You're also streetwise and savvy, especially when it comes to the things that are most important to you. With that deadly combo of creativity and logic, your brains are the only muscle you'll ever need when tackling even the biggest of problems. Just don't let all that talent go to your head!"

An Indulgent Eater

I, more than others, truly gain satisfaction from eating. And because of this, I sometimes have difficulty slowing down or just saying no. I enjoy eating and what's great about that is I understand how to appreciate certain aspects of food that others do not. I see food as more than just a source of nutrition or energy. For me, dining, or just plain eating, can be a really enjoyable experience. On the downside, however, I might sometimes indulge too much in the satisfaction I get from eating.

I can't deny Tasty Treats

How Strong is Your Willpower?

My Result: Tasty Treats

Are you a slave to a big bag of chips? Obsessed with the candy jar at work? Is your best friend the pint of Ben & Jerry's in your freezer? Maybe that's a little over the top, but admit it — you've got a serious thing for snacks and getting strung out on sugar is all the high you'll ever need. That's okay, though, it fits your pleasure-seeking, feel-good personality to a T.

Now, we're sure you know the dangers of eating too many cupcakes, right? And we aren't just talking about fitting into those skinny jeans. Sure there's more to life than watching your cholesterol and counting calories, but considering your health every now and again can't hurt. Maybe just try to limit yourself to one — okay, two — or maybe three — snack attack sessions a day. And try to keep at least some of them healthy, okay?

Take this test >

A Broken Trust

"A Broken Trust can be best described as a crumpled piece of paper...no matter how hard you try to straighten it out, it will never take on its true form."

what's my type?

There are many different ways to look at relationships, but for me, finding a best friend, the one person I share everything with, is the most important. Some people focus more on the romantic image of a soul mate to last the span of time, but I probably prefer the reality of making the most of every moment of every day. And who better to live those moments with than someone who's true blue through and through?

The ideal match for me is probably someone who can anticipate the next word out of my mouth and who laughs at the punch line before I even tell it. Chances are it's important to me that they'd expand my circle of friends, introduce me to new places, faces, and experiences, too. Whether this relationship is here for the short- or the long- term, I am a take-it-as-it-comes kind of person, with few expectations or fairytales to live up to. I'd take my constant companion and trusted secret-keeper over a fairy princess or Prince Charming, any day. Whether I realize it or not, there's someone out there who feels the same way about me. Like me, that someone is looking for the one person to be their best friend — both in the bedroom and out.

The Girl Next Door

"Cute, fun, and sweet, you're Sandra Bullock, Jennifer Aniston, and Meg Ryan all rolled up into one — the perfect Girl Next Door."

Naturally pretty, unpretentious, and generous, I demand my share of respect, but I am not particularly high-maintenance. What's my ideal date? Probably a Blockbuster night — I don't mind skipping an evening on the town if it means getting some old-fashioned snuggling on the sofa. Careful yet spontaneous, I am a little bit of the Guy's Girl, a smidge of Sorority Sister (the nice kind), and just a hint of the Hippie Chick. But I've got an appeal that's all my own, which is why the guys can't stay away. People are attracted to my strong values and traditional ways. My winning smile, bright eyes, and loving nature will make anyone want to hold on tight and never let go.

Most at Home in the Bedroom

My "me" time is sacred. And who can blame me? With all the different directions I've pulled in each day, I could all use a little time by myself to refuel the old battery. That's why the bedroom is a great haven for me. Surrounded by the things that comfort me most — whether down pillows, soft blankets, or my favorite knickknacks. The boudoir is a place I can take time to relax, think, and just be me.

It's where I can tuck myself into my favorite chair and write in my journal or climb into bed, pull the covers up, and take an undisturbed catnap. Even as kids, our bedrooms were places that were definitively ours, and that's never changed. A heavenly mixture of coziness and solitude, I'll find no better sanctuary than my very own bedroom.